I am a widowed 82 yo and I know I need to plan about assisted living. I just don't know where to begin. As I get older I know I am going to need support.
- I want to start planning.
- I want to stay in my home. It is paid and no major maintenance
- Mentally, I am in excellent shape
- Physically, I am mobile.
- Transportation, I can drive locally
- Financially, I have above average income/wealth and can support home care services
Other options, I need to plan home support, such as daily housekeeping, cleaning, laundry, cooking, etc.
CHATGPT
You’re being very wise in thinking ahead now while you’re still sharp and mobile. Planning for support before you urgently need it gives you control and peace of mind.
Action Plan (Preliminary)
Research local agencies
Home Care (not Healthcare) Agencies in/near Hendersonville
Start with weekly cleaning + grocery delivery.
Biweekly cleaning - Chastity
Grocery delivery - Instacart , Kroger Delivery
Miscellaneous - Amazon
Test meal support (chef, delivery, or aide who cooks).
Set up home safety basics (grab bars, alert system).
Talk with an eldercare attorney about POA, will, and healthcare directive
Done - not needed.
Create a list of trusted helpers (plumber, handyman, tech help, caregivers).
Review annually → adjust as needs change.