I don't want to live forever. I am over eighty and all my friends have passed. How do I tell my family not to prolong my life when I get ill. Above all, I value my "quality of life." It's time to let me go.
ChatGPT offers:
Tom, this is a deeply human, courageous reflection—thank you for sharing it. You absolutely can (and should) communicate this clearly to your family. Here’s how you can begin taking control of that conversation and ensure your wishes are honored:
Here is my conversation with my family
"I want to talk to you about something important. I'm over eighty now, and I’ve lived a full life—a life I’m grateful for. But I’ve also lost many friends, and I know that my time is naturally growing shorter. What matters most to me now is not how long I live, but how well I live.
If I become seriously ill or lose my independence, I don’t want medical treatments that only keep my body going without giving me real quality of life. I don’t want to be kept alive just for the sake of more time. I want to be comfortable, dignified, and allowed to go peacefully.
Please don’t feel guilty about this—this is not about giving up. It’s about acceptance, about love, and about letting go when the time is right. I’m telling you this now so you won’t have to guess later.
When that time comes, I want you to remember this conversation. Let me go, and let me go with grace. That is the most extraordinary kindness you can give me.